Officiant & Couple Planning Tool • 1-Click Script Import

Couple ceremony interview questionnaire

The secret to an unforgettable ceremony is asking the right questions ahead of time. Share this page with the couple, then send their answers straight into the Custom Ceremony Script Builder.

Officiant → Couple Invite Link

Send this worksheet to the couple—or fill it out together

Privacy-first: answers travel inside the encrypted share link itself so private family stories aren’t stored on a public server.

10-Prompt Ceremony Planning Worksheet

Tell your officiant about your ceremony & story

1. Partner A Name

2. Partner B Name

3. Officiant Name

4. Wedding State

5. Ceremony Tone & Style

6. Ideal Ceremony Length

7. How did you meet, and when did you know this was for life?

8. What everyday ritual or small moment together means the most to you?

9. What is one quality each of you admires most in the other?

10A. Vow Preference

10B. Special Family / Loved-One Notes (Optional)

How to conduct a calm, memorable pre-wedding couple interview

Whether you are officiating for a lifelong best friend, a sibling, or a cousin, scheduling a dedicated 30-to-45-minute planning conversation four to six weeks before rehearsal day transforms an ordinary script into a personal, deeply moving ceremony. Use the 10-question worksheet above during a video call or coffee meeting, or send the couple a pre-filled share link so each partner can jot down thoughts privately first.

1. Align Tone & Boundaries

Confirm upfront whether the couple prefers a warm secular celebration, a light spiritual blessing, or traditional Christian scripture and prayer—and ask explicitly if any family dynamics or topics should stay off-limits.

2. Confirm Names & Pronouncement

Verify phonetic pronunciation for family members honored in the welcome, who holds the wedding bands, and exactly how the couple wishes to be introduced at the closing pronouncement.

3. Import Directly Into Your Script

Click Import into Custom Ceremony Script Builder to carry names, tone, vows preference, and story highlights straight into /ceremony-scripts, and pair with our 6-lesson officiant training course.